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From Lifeway, a practical tool...

How to Remember the Names of People in Your Church

Written by Teena Stewart
Name recall is important. When you call people by name it communicates their value to you. Learning names helps build up the church body. When you take the time to get to know someone by name, you are likely to take the relationship a step further and get to know them as individuals.
Here are twelve tips for remembering names:

1. Repeat the name of the person who is being introduced.

   Say it aloud several times.
   Find excuses to use it in your conversation with the new acquaintance.



2. If you don’t think you heard the name correctly, ask the person to repeat it. Better yet, ask them to spell it.


3. Write the name down as soon as possible.


4. Make up a silly rhyme to go with the name.


5. Use memory tricks like opposite associations and “soundalikes.” Recently I met a gray-haired fellow named Chris Young. His name was easy to recall because physically he looked the opposite of young.


6. Practice good listening skills. Friends and family members may call out the mystery person’s name.


7. Still stumped? When the guest is out of earshot, ask his or her friend or relative for the person’s name.


8. Pay attention to your church’s print media. Bulletins and newsletters may provide clues.


9. Check out the church’s pictorial directory. Seeing the name in print alongside a picture makes it easier to remember.


10. Suggest that your church have a “Friendship Sunday” once a month. Be sure everyone wears a name tag.


11. Never assume that someone knows you after one introduction. Be willing to reintroduce yourself and ask his or her name in return.


12. Pray for better memory and name retention.

I try to repeat names, and I always introduce myself to someone who's name I don't know, so I can say, "and tell me your name..."

If I have a hunch I've met before, I always add "again" as a suffix, plus, "I'm sorry," if I have indeed forgotten.